July 28, 2016

Divorce: 21yrs old Marriage dissolved over wife's poor cooking

An Igando Customary Court in Lagos has dissolved a 21-year-old marriage over wife's poor cooking.

Delivering his judgment, the court's President, Mr Adegboyega Omilola said the petitioner, 54yrs old Ashimiyu Abiodun, was adamant despite mediation for him to reconsider his wife, Aisha Abiodun for the sake of their marriage.

The judge said; “Since the petitioner has insisted on divorce after several interventions, the court has no choice than to dissolve the union despite the wife’s claim that she still loves her husband.

“The court pronounced the marriage between Ashimiyu Abiodun and Aisha Abiodun dissolved today; both parties, henceforth, ceased to be husband and wife.

“Both are free to go their separate ways without any hindrances or molestation,” Omilola ruled.

NAN reports that earlier, the petitioner, Mr Ashimiyu Abiodun had approached the court and asked it to dissolve his 21-year-old marriage over his wife’s alleged poor cooking.

“My wife did not know how to cook, her food are tasteless. Anytime she cooked and I complained about her food, she would tell me to cook myself. And I started cooking my food because if I had continued eating her food, I might have fallen sick,” he said.

Abiodun said, “My wife was very dirty; she would not wash or sweep the house, everywhere in the house used to smell.

“She kept packing used plates for four days or more without washing them and I was always doing the cleaning. Aisha would go out every Friday and returned on Sunday evening. During weekdays, she would leave home by 7am and returned at midnight and I dared not query her.

“Aisha had turned my children against me, they had stopped respecting me and she would not allow me to correct them whenever they erred.

“On several occasions, my wife and my first son had torn my clothes in the public when I wanted to beat him for his wrong doing,” he said.

Abiodun said his wife was lazy saying she ruined the shop he equipped for her on three occasions.

But Aisha, 46, a launderer, said, “I did not know why my husband stopped eating my food. I tried my best to give him good food but he was always complaining that my food was tasteless.

“I was not dirty as I was always cleaning the house,” she said.

Aisha urged the court not to grant the divorce, saying 'I still love him'. But the husband refused. Sad!

8 comments:

mummy twins said...

Its well

samaila sulaiman said...

How sad

Michael Amata said...

What have they been waiting for after 21 years?

SPACO said...

you have been married for 21 years is now that you knew that she dont know how to cook, what of her children?

inumidun said...

Nawa o, staying married takes God n both parties in d marriage..

Ay360 said...

So he jst knew she can't cook abi

Jeff Kingsley Jr said...

does nt make any sense Oga if u love ur wife send her to catering sch

Ilamosi said...

God will intervene for he does not accept divorce.SHE SHOULD HOLD ON GOD ALMIGHTY.