October 04, 2016

Will I Ever Find The Right Person To Marry?

I don't even know where to start or how to explain what my problem is, hopefully I get lucky for the 'problem' to be 'diagnosed'. I'm a 27yrs old lady, finished university very very early and I've been extremely lucky with almost everything in life, but to get a suitor and settle down na wahala.

Friends and family members keep saying I'm too choosy or not serious. 

Honestly, I AM NOT choosy. 
When the one thing I fast/pray for is for God to link me with the bone of my bone very soon, I even gave up my travelling plans in order to increase my chances of finding a future partner (I know you can meet ur partner anywhere, but na just to shut up people wey don think say I no dey serious).

A close friend even suggested i pend my 'work-from-home business', look for job so i can be leaving the house, and i got lucky within a month of dusting my CV I got a good job with no connection (honestly I've always been so lucky when I ask God for anything but I have no idea why he is delaying this). 

I just dont know how to explain it, the ones I like doesn't like me and the ones I dont have single feelings for will do anything to wife me. I'm not desperate or something, i just want to reach out if I'm the only one having this problem.

There was even a time I made up my mind to accept an ex proposal even tho I have no feelings for him, I kept hoping for a miracle to happen so I can at least like him (even if its 20%) bcus he was just too PERFECT, but it didn't just happen. 

My type of man doesnt need to be rich, tall, handsome like most ladies dream man. He should just be neat, truly God fearing and have something he's doing (i love intelligent guys). 

I really envy people that love their partners and they are loved back equally. Married folks, please, I'm waiting to hear from you.

And for most people that will think I'm looking for a rich guy, believe me I once met a guy that was willing to sponsor my education in UK if I will be his Mrs, but I will never engage in anything that will bring trouble for me tomorrow because of money love. 

So my problem is not even money.

- Ms S.


Anonymous said...

Tell the lady that she cant wish for a good partner in marriage, she must pray seriously about it because the rest of her life and future depends on who she marry

Kadelu Samuel Olukunle said...

Hmmm...let me just say u should be patient the more. You are not too small nor to old to get married. Just free yourself of the trauma and believe me, when you don't even expect he will show up. Am telling you this 'cos that's what I was told too. Though it's yet to happen and I don't even think of it at all. Enjoy!

Adeyinka Adedeji said...


Ololade said...

Anyway just be patience. But know that there is no perfect man anywhere,it doesn't even exist. Be prayerful and work on your feelings

Anonymous said...

You dont want a tall,handsome rich man like other girls but the ones you have been meetingg you still don't have feelings for. You are the problem of your problem

Hassan Aderemi said...

To be honest with you, forget about the fact that you are not choosy, indeed you are, because those who came to you were not your choice & your choice are not developing the feelings for you. It's normal to have taste but keep calm & continue with your prayers, am sure the right man that will be your choice will locate you. Beware of some gold digger & money monger guys that full everywhere that might use this opportunity to defraud you with painted love

Anofi Julius said...

Okay, Olu. Is she born again? If you are born again then keep on praying, the Lord will answer you soon, moreover, I want to let you know, before Gold come shining it has go through a lot fire, so wait till your time come. I think am facing the same problem, but if you really know that you are born again christian, Olu please help to give her my number, but if she know she's not born again christian, she should not bother. Am not always on net she can email me on anofijulius@yahoo.com. Thanks

inumidun said...

She should cast her burden un2 God..

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