April 04, 2017

Is My Wife Sleeping With Her Boss?

A troubled married man, Ogoh, said he needs advise before taking any action...
I need your immediate advise on an issue. I have been suspecting my wife lately. 
This is someone I have never suspected since we got married in 2010. We have 2 kids. My wife actually works in one of the government agencies. 
In recent times I'm beginning to doubt her. I called to have a conversation with her which she took personal and led to serious fight between us.
The main issue is this; I recently saw a screen munched picture of WhatsApp conversation between my wife and her boss in which my wife was asking for money from her boss and that if he gave her the money she would have s*x with him
Just to corroborate this point, I had a laptop that I was not using, recently I logged on to it and I saw my wife's google search on the following: "My regrets after having s*x with my boss", "how to relate with my boss after sleeping with him". 
I need wise counsel on how to deal with this matter.  


18 comments:

Anonymous said...

It hurts,yes it hurts but no need for the fight. She is your wife and there are many good times you had together. Put her in a happy mood,get her what she likes most or whatever makes her happy. In that mood present to her what you observed then listen to her response. In all remember the love you share.

Anonymous said...

It hurts,yes it hurts but no need for the fight. She is your wife and there are many good times you had together. Put her in a happy mood,get her what she likes most or whatever makes her happy. In that mood present to her what you observed then listen to her response. In all remember the love you share.

Rosemary Ezeji said...

You need Wisdom to handle things.

inumidun said...

Nawa o..

Nasiru Adoke said...

he should find out thoroughly if she has or about to and not directly because in self defence she will vehemently refute the allegation and then in order to find out he should use a close friend or family member of hers to get it out from her then confront her openly if its positive and give her space then seek advice from both families as to know what next to do

Onifade Folashade said...

Enter your comment...what else are you waiting for? but you need to keep an eye on her till you are sure of ur claim.how can she demand money from her boss with a promise to compensate with her body?oga watch and pray.

abdulrasaq abdulrafii said...

You need more evidence to prove yourself. If you screenshot the chat and send to your phone that could have being enough evidence. Before you ask anything.

godwin progragrammer said...

just take it easy

Onifade Joseph said...

Bro you really need wise counsel
#Believe

I. C Bruno said...

If your claims was right that means She really had sex with her boss. Confront her first, disguise in order to extract the factual truth. If confirmed to be true send her packing or forgive her.

Thomas said...

speechless.. women of these days

Austine Gabriel said...

Try and have a midnight talk with her

Hassan Aderemi said...

Proverbial wise man will not contest the death of his father until he's able to hold the sword handle, literarily means you need to assemble your facts to be able to proof it beyond reasonable doubt that you're aware of amorous relationship between her & her boss. Find out the reasons for her action, check her phone text messages & the calls log, warn her to desist if she has started having sex with her boss or to erace the notion if she is contemplating of such relationship but if all efforts failed to make her a faithful house wife, you might ask her to choose between you & her boss.

Sunshow said...

It was wrong of her

Oladimeji Seun said...

Take it easy for her, if you are sincere with your wife, God will definately hand her over to you.

Olisayemk said...

Why don't you try to talk to her about it but also don't make it look like you are accusing her. Maybe she is under pressure from her boss but had not given in to it. Also pray about it

okorochas justin said...

Pray God for wisdom...

Queen Abiodun Ogunnika said...

Your wife is playing with fire

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