"My mates are using big phones, my mates have car, my mates are wearing designer clothes, going to shows, etc. I want to be like my mates." That is what you hear from people who are crazy about social media.
Do you know what business your so called mates are into? How much are they making legitimately? You're between 20 and 30 years old, but you want to have everything that people in their 40s, 50s, 60s, who have worked for at least 20yrs of their life have, without even having a small job.
If not that they were caught, this girl would also be flaunting iPhone and spending large without any reasonable job and some of her misguided "mates" will jealous her. Sigh!