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"How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually"; husband shares experience

A young couple are having it 'rough' at the moment and the husband needs advise. He wrote:

My ordeal on how my marriage got to a near collapse. We have a room and a sitting room. I work in a private firm and she works in a private secondary school as a teacher. We are blessed with a child.

When we got married 3 years ago, we used to pray together at least every morning and night but latter I had to stop praying with her for the following reasons;

1..Her prayer is mostly about attacking people most especially people that are close to me both male and female. Sometimes she would pray so that some will have accident, some to run mad and all those kind of prayers. Even my boss at work inclusive for making me to stay beyond working hours sometimes. This irritates me a lot and so much against my believe on how to pray.

2..She curse more than a winch though under the seal of Jesus name and blood. This doesn’t make her different from a wicked herbalist in my own view.

3..And lastly, I later stopped praying with her when she would always wake up around 12 am to pray and fire till around 3am. She will wake up again around 5am preparing for the office.

4…Sometimes she would talk from 12am till 4am. I will wake up and sleep and still wake again to find her still talking on irrelevant.

She can do this for days. I do enjoy my sleep at best if she starts by 3 or 4. I have told her the effects of this on me. It always make me inactive in the office. It got to a stage I was not feeling fine without any physical sign. I had to go to the hospital for test and nothing was diagnosed. I knew I needed rest.

Meanwhile, I am a kind of person that love thanking God for who I am and I love interceding for people around. I told her and warned her to limit the hours so that I can have a good rest but she won’t listen, instead she took it to another level each day. She was doing it as if I was against Christ or have a devil in me she wants to chase away with prayer.

Due to this, I later started having nightmares almost on daily bases. I later started sleeping in the sitting room. Sometimes she would come and start singing and praying again. She forced me to tell a family friend and they told her the effects it may have on me again. So she stopped coming to the sitting room to pray.

Funny enough, I am always sleeping fine in the sitting room and its now 6 months and I am enjoying it. To make it worse, our bedroom is like a shrine to me now. I only enter, change my cloth after bath or change to house ware after work then retire to the sitting room till the following morning. In the last 6 months I don’t think I have spent up to five minutes in the bedroom.
 
This is just one out of 100 things happening in my home. Presently, the home is about finally collapsing. What am I going to do?

3 comments:

  1. Sir your reasons are not accepted....

    please settle dispute with your wife as soon as possible. you can always advice her if you feel she is not praying well or if she is disturbing your rest at night.

    please accept one another in love and don't allow the devil to steal your joy, love and peace. the Lord is not interesting in divided homes.

    I am happy you did not say your wife is dating some other men out there. please be careful how you treat and handle your family matters and stop publicizing your private lives.

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  2. sir i must say the devil is at work in my short opinion i would like both of you to sit down nd talk about it or better still both of you can go for counselling.Thanks

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